Video Transcript… Sex On The First Date

Bessie Bardo
Hi! I’m Bessie Bardo
Jeff Barker
And I’m Jeff Barker
Bessie Bardo
And were RedHotPie’s dating doctors, and today were here to give you some smart and spicy dating advice. First we’ll start with the spicy…
Jeff Barker
Whats on today?
Bessie Bardo
You know everybody has an opinion about it! Everybody’s scared to know what to do. Sex on the first date!!!
Jeff Barker
Yes please!
Bessie Bardo
You say please… and guys seem to think they want it, then often you will think different of us the next day.
Jeff Barker
Well its true guys… you know who you are. Don’t think differently of them the next day.
Bessie Bardo
Respect us in the morning, please.
Jeff Barker
In deed, but seriously… the answer to sex on the first date is simple. Its completly up to the individual, and you have to respect that. You cant be pressured into it because someone’s nagging into your ear, or your friends are doing it, or somebody said you should. It really is up to you, and if it feels like something you want to do.
Bessie Bardo
So lets go thru some pro’s and con’s and try to get some sense into this situation. Pro’s… I mean the first one, like hello! its going to be fun.
Jeff Barker
Yeh, if you do have sex on the first date, its probably going to be fun.
Bessie Bardo
You’ll go with the moment, you will feel like your in a movie scene, it can be exiting.
Jeff Barker
Can be awkward
Bessie Bardo
Can be awkward
Jeff Barker
But mostly its fun, its supposed to be fun.
Bessie Bardo
And in some ways its good to get it over and done with, because you can work out, especially if you have been single for a long time, the tension from not having sex for such a long time.
Jeff Barker
Yeh
Bessie Bardo
And you can work out if your actually into the person, or if it was just a sexual attraction.
Jeff Barker
Or this can be that carrot on a stick scenario, where if you hold off from having sex on the first date, the person that your with will sort of chase you, and because you have a lot of chemicals running thru your body, you wont actually know if its true love or just a lustful fling. So sex on the first date can actually clear away all of that and leave you with the reality of wether you want to pursure the relationship or not.
Bessie Bardo
Sounds like a lot of fun so far, but there are some con’s of course as I said. Somebody could think differently the next day. Maybe not respect you in the morning.
Jeff Barker
Yes… the old "dont respect you in the morning". If the guy rolls over out of the bed and says "I’ve got to go to the Dentist sweetheart, I’ll see you later" you know you dont want him in your life anyway. Just think back, ok, we had fun at the time, dont collect baggage and bring it into another relationship because you think that might be the person that treats you right. Just accept it for what it was, and be glad that you have moved him along. If you hadn’t had sex on the first date, you would have found this out like 20 days in, and it would have been a lot more painful.
Bessie Bardo
Wasted a lot of time and energy. Ok, well tips, if you do do it, most importantly dont feel guilty about it. Life’s too short to be guilty. Just give him or her a call the next day, and have a laugh.
Jeff Barker
Just have a laugh about it. People can get all worked and think… Oh my goodness, I cant believe what I have done. Pick up the phone and laugh, just say that was a lot of fun. That dispells it all, and allows you to move on with the relationship.
Bessie Bardo
And be prepared, maybe it was just in the moment. Enjoy what you did. Dont necessarilly think of it as meaning anything in the future. And of course be safe and enjoy your dating.
Jeff Barker
In deed.
Bessie Bardo
Well thats it from us. If you would like to find out any more information, of course you can look at our books online, or you can go to RedHotPie
Australia. Well dont forget… Life is too short, so get it right the first time with out smart and spicy dating advice… bye.
Jeff Barker
See you next time.

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Online Dating

What is online dating? Online dating is where people come together and meet. There are millions and millions of people using dating sites. With millions of people the odds are totally in your favor. It doesn’t matter if you are a girl or a guy. These sites are not what they use to be, everything has changed with these sites, they are more technically advanced, for example with a click of button you can chat with 1 to 10 people instantly or choose who you want to be matched up with. These sites are very powerful and have many functions that people don’t use. Use them all it will open so many more doors. If you don’t know how to use them read the help instructions.

Success with women and men

Everybody wants to be successful in their love life. Everybody wants to be wanted or desired. It’s a natural human emotion. Many people stop looking because of something that happened in the past, they might have got rejected or just don’t have good luck in finding someone. When using dating sites everything is made to be easy for you. First of all you don’t meet people face to face. Second, the people you are meeting have the same interests as you. This couldn’t be easier; everything is in place to help you find someone. Where else can you go where everyone is pushing to help you with your love life?

Which site to choose

There are many dating sites on the internet. We all know this; they range from free to pay sites. There are sites for everything, religious dating sites, gay lesbian sites, hooking up for one night sites and many others. Now you could search the internet and take the time to go through all the different sites to find the really good ones, but this takes time. One way that people are so successful in finding dating sites is they look for review sites. These review sites do all the work for you. They report which are the best and worst. This really helps and saves you time.

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To get the dates and have success with women or men you need to find the best sites that have the most people on them. Basically we need to check the inventory (guy and girls) and make sure it fits your personality. Follow these instructions, this is Very Important, only use the sites that are free to join, because they don’t cost anything. If you don’t like what you see drop it and try the next one.

This just proves that there is no age limit to finding romance. Some divorced, widows and widowers find their new partners through these dating sites, with far more ease than they would probably experience offline. In fact, there are now internet dating sites that are specially targeted to the baby boomer population.

Like most online dating sites, these sites for baby boomers also have chat forums, instant messenger, voip phone features, video and photo sharing, which can make communication easier for its members. Some subscribers may not feel too comfortable revealing too much about their personalities first, so they can choose to use these features or delay using them, until they are ready.

If you are a newbie on online dating, it is a better idea to visit sites where the members belong to your age group. That way, there will be no need to hide your age, as some feel obliged to when they see that the members in most of these sites are in their 30s or even younger. It will make it a lot easier for you to find the match you are looking for if you visit the sites that are frequented by people your age, because you will most probably have the same interests as well.

Once you find the right internet dating site for you, always remember to exercise some caution, before you reveal too much personal information about you. There are still people who also target these baby boomer internet dating sites with the intent to scam or lead on people. Remember that for any site that you become an active member of, safety is a priority.

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Considering this, every adult member are given the obligation to make sure that whatever content they choose to upload or publish must be in consonance with the regulations prescribed by RedHotPie and this fact is of paramount importance. Among those contents which are expressly prohibited to be uploaded or published by members include, but not limited to, contact information, unlawful content like child pornography or bestiality, racial or abusive messages, spam mail and chain letters, copyrighted material, false identity, business advertisements, plus robots, spiders or viruses.

Other than that, RedHotPie also contains a simple and logical layout and can be navigated easily, as compared to other dating sites available. A quick search box is available in the site where to search for other members is permitted. Search may be done categorically which is either by age, gender, location or community. To be part of either or both the Dating or the Uncut communities is also permitted to members.

Live webcam chats, which allows members meet face to face, is also made available by the site and it includes adult webcam chats or social webcam chats. For social webcam chats, what is permitted to be posted are not adult or sexual in nature.

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Here are 3 little tips that work big time and will help you approach women successfully:

1. Don’t assume that she is going to reject you. In fact, you should train yourself to expect the OPPOSITE. If you expect that she is going to reject you, then you are NOT going to step up to her with your best game by any means. You are probably going to end up looking like a guy that is somewhat awkward, and of course that is not going to look good on you.

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Video Transcript :

Jeff :
Whats your opinion of online dating?

Female #1 :
For some people its probably a good way of just getting… like there energy back. like getting back into the dating game.

Male #1 :
Well people usually when they sign up they put a profile down so you can go and watch what there interested in. Your not fighting thru the stuff you dont want to know.

Male #2 :
You can pretty much suss somebody out, like if your a bit of a conversationalist, it makes it really easy to do that.

Female # 1 :
And you know its all layed out on the table, so you sort of know what your getting into, and people put a bit of thought into what there going to put in there beacaus ethey want to give the impression of what they really want.

Female #2 :
And at the same time you can ask something you would never ask them on a date without feeling awkward or nasty.

Female #3 :
Yeh, I think it saves time doesn’t it, and you can communicate a bit before giving photographs of each other, just incase you dont fancy the particular person… you just disappear, I suppose!!!

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Bessie :
Hi! I’m Bessie Bardo

Jeff :
And I’m Jeff Barker

Bessie :
Were RedHotPie’s Personals Uncut Au dating doctors.

Jeff :
Yes we are!

Bessie :
Now right here were here to talk to you about some smart and spicy dating advice. One of the most important topics when it comes to RedHotPie personals Uncut Au of course is online dating. Its all changed!

Your friends would hook you up once with Haryy the high pants… dramatic results would follow. But now online dating sites (like RedHotPie Personals Uncut Au) make it much easier.

Jeff :
Online dating is by far the most efficient way to date. Gone are the days when it was like looking for a needle in a haystack, except that the haystack cost $20 to get in to, and was full of cockroaches, and you got to get a cab between each haystack.

With online dating Sites like RedHotPie Personals Uncut Au you can sit back, put your slippers on, sip a Martini and have fun.

Bessie :
And its all about… no games. people are hopefully very honest about who they are and what they want. I know why you (Jeff) like online dating… because when someone rejects you, its not so painful as it is, face to face.

Jeff :
Yes ladies its true! If someone comes along you dont like, rather than having to jump out of the bathroom window of the club. You just press delete… and you never have to see them again.

Bessie :
Its that simple!!! When it comes to online dating, (like at RedHotPIe Personals Uncut Au) your member profile is everything. Its just like dressing up for a night on the town, you want to impress. You need to impress with your RedHotPie Personals Uncut Au members profile too.

Jeff :
And the first thing to know is that no matter what your into Wether your into flirting, or a happy ever after. Or just someone to sit down to watch videos’ with, or your naughty and you just want to have the time of your life… there’s a person for you at RedHotPie Personals Uncut Au.

All sorts, and all shapes and sizes. And its all written on there RedHotPie Personals Uncut Au members profile. You dont have to be a Shakespear, but do write a members profile that reflects who you are.

Thers no point in lying. No point in saying that your 6′ 4″ and athletic, if your 4′ 3″ and dumpy… OK! Its just not fair on the person your talking to, and you wouldn’t like it being done to you.

Be HONEST!… Now the really great thing is that you can actually get verified these days if your a member of RedHotPie Personals Uncut Au… getting your membership verified confirms that you are who you say you are.

Bessie :
And you know your chatting to a girl, and not a guy.

Jeff :
Which is important!

Bessie :
Pictures!!! Most important thing of all. How hard is it to take a good photo.

Jeff :
Come on!.. I’ve seen some horrific pictures. Dont get them taken by your cat or your baby brother. Dont take them in the dark. Dont use a mobile phone. Dont use your webcam. Get a simple digital camera. Go out and have some fun, go to a party…

Bessie :
Take a picture doing things you love to do, good light and good background.

Jeff :
And if you need to lighten them up, you can get some cheap Programs that will lighten them up. And dont post them sideways, what is with that!

Bessie :
Keep them simple. And please! dont get glamour shots done. There’s no point in getting something thats not really you at all. Because when you turn up, they wont recognise you.

Jeff :
You want people to love you for you.

Bessie :
Very true. Ok, so lets talk about some Do’s and Dont’s most importantly. Dont give out your personal information, and do meet in a public place.

Jeff :
You dont need to give out your personal information at all. The great thing about RedHotPie Personals Uncut Au specifically is that you can go to there Functions, because as a member you get to go to there regular Functions all around the Australia.So you can rock up, and say to the person you would like to meet, and say “hey” lets meet at the next Function. Its nece and casual, and your in a safe envirement, totally OK.

Bessie :
Exactly… so be honest about who you are and what you want. If your married, tell us please!!! And most importantly, relax and have some fun. Online dating at RedHotPie Personals Uncut Au is a lot more effective way to meet like minded people.

Jeff :
Dont spam people. Dont send out thousands and thousands of emails to people that you dont have any interest in, and you have not even read there RedHotPie Personals Uncut Au members profile.

Read ther members profile. Dont be pushy. People dont always want to meet up straight away. They might want to get to know first, say, using a webcam. So have a bit of a flirt, a bit of fun. Take your time and get to know people.

Bessie :
Well, thats all from us. If you would like any more information… check out our Books online, or go to RedHotPie Personals Uncut Au if there is any more questions you would like to ask.

Just remember, life is just to short… so get it right the first time with our hot and spicy dating advice.

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Matching the expectations of the online daters, the dating sites are also improving day by day. Now famous dating sites like RedHotPie Au in Australia have a vast geographical reach and offer features like live web-cam chatting. To attract more members they provide free basic membership and safe environment. Paid membership in almost all the dating sites are nominal and it is worth paid to avail more attractive features and considering the fact that you are going to search your perfect soul mate.

Your Choice Must Be Need Based

For a successful online dating relationship, choose the site according to your needs, family environment, and social setup. Don’t join a site because of its popularity. Your choice should be need based. There are some top most online dating services in Australia like RedHotPie Au and Adult Matchmaker. So it is better to join the free membership of 2 or 3 internet dating sites and over the period figure out the suitable dating website that matches your expectations. It is advisable to become a paid member of the chosen dating site as you can’t get to your perfect match in a half-hearted approach. The search for a perfect match varies from person to person, each expecting some particular qualities from the would be soul mate.

The online search for dating is mostly for singles, who cares to share the intimate feelings, love and friendship. A good volume of search is for more romantic love and the search targets beautiful girls, iron men and hot women. The emotional persons are looking for a caring soul mate to pursue their marriage proposal. The dating site you choose, should serve your purpose giving you peace of mind apart from friendship, love and romance.

Dating Sites For Different Ethnic Groups

Due to globalization the world has become a global village and settling in another country is a common thing. Most of the countries have a multi-lingual and multi-racial population.. Different ethnic groups practicing different cultures form a considerable a percentage of the total population in almost all of the developed countries around the world. Just searching for a soul mate in your migrated country won’t serve your purpose and ultimately the relationship may end in strain because of your poor understanding of the native culture.

If you don’t want to be adventurous and need peace with your society, then getting your dating partner from the same ethnic group is advisable. As each ethnic group forms a sizable percentage, searching for your perfect match from within the community is not a difficult task. To serve the expectations of the migrated population many online dating sites have established ethnic oriented dating sites. Getting a dating mate within your group will help you to socialize yourself in the new environment, before getting accustomed to the new culture.

It avoids unnecessary friction and misunderstanding in your dating relationship. Being in an alien country all of a sudden, you would feel the isolation and it would take some years before integrating with the local population. For all that years you can’t be alone and the ethnic dating sites will solve your problem of finding your soul mate from among your own culture. There are dating sites for Asians, Black Americans, Germans, French, Chinese, Indians and so on.

Dating Sites For Religious Groups

There are different dating sites for different religious groups. Religion also plays an important role in breaking relationship. People during their dating relationship won’t think too much about the practical life. If the dating relationship is just for fun and romance it’s ok, but if it is for serious love, then the dating partners should have a matured mind to end up in a peaceful married life.

Many online daters who have their dating relationship with someone from a different religion are haunted by the disapproval of their family members. Though you have every right to choose your life partner, the disapproval of someone you love will have its own problems. If you are of an emotional type and do not want to risk your relationship at home, then religious dating is advisable. The online religious dating sites host thousands and thousands of singles profiles from each religion. If you are not bold enough to face the challenges, you better opt for the religious dating, as it will give you the peace of mind you need.

On the positive side, it will be highly rewarding to have your soul mate from the same belief and culture. You can avoid being left in an isolated world of you two only, rejected by both the communities of yourself and your life partner. You both can mingle with the local community freely, if both of you belongs to the same spiritual belief. There are dating sites for Christians, Jews, Muslims and Hindus.

Exclusive Dating For Exclusive Tastes

The conventional dating sites are not the cup of tea for a sizable number of online daters. They want a different look and approach.The bold, not so serious and fun loving people are looking for different sources to find out their dating partner. They are bored by the traditional dating site and they are not willing to bind themselves into a frame of rules. They need friendship, love and romance and not serious enough to attach any long lasting value to the dating relationship. But they expect some qualities before making a relationship. To serve their appetite, there are exclusive dating sites like adult dating, BDSM, gay and lesbian dating. Those who are conservative can safely keep away from exclusive adult dating sites.

Not all exclusive dating sites are adult oriented. There are some exclusive dating sites to serve some specific purposes. The millionaire mate dating site is a best example of this kind. Those who harbor a desire to marry a millionaire guy or those who want to marry a millionaire lady can avail the service of such dating site. Some other dating sites in this category are Senior Friend Finder and Slim Dating site to interact with fitness savvy people.

Information : Searching for a dating relationship if for love and sharing apart from fun and romance. Choose the dating site keeping in mind your needs, your attachment to your family and your sensitiveness to your society. These factors decide whether you can have a bold and adventurous relationship or non confrontational and peaceful relationship. Analyze yourself and this will help you in having a joyful and peaceful dating relationship.

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Make a clear assessment of the experiences you would not like to go through. For instance, you would hate to be lied to while your partner had a clandestine fling. When you set clear boundaries, you are coming clean about what you are as a person and are likely to attract people who think like you and share similar qualities.

Set clear boundaries

You would hate to be manipulated into doing something that you do not want to be a part of. What are the few things you would not do under any given circumstance? Keep these boundaries in mind when you visit a free dating site. If you find that there are some people who seem to be trying to set up parallel relationships and are succeeding in doing so at various stages, steer clear. You do not want to be one more of the many people being considered for forming a partnership. If you find someone suitable, lay a time limit in which both of you can decide whether you would like to go ahead or not. A free dating site like RedHotPie Uncut in Australia is home to different people some of who may not be comfortable with your approach. Home in on the ones who respond to your open style. Do not criticize or praise your past relationships and do not be open to people who complain about present or past partners.

Experience openness

Be open to the things that are said as long as they are not in your “will not accept” zone. Your openness on a free dating site will come up with responses and you will have to take care not to be rigid. If a potentially good partner who thinks like you does not share your hobbies, you may need to keep your mind open to adjusting to this aspect of the person. Do you think you can have a conversation with a person who shares interests that are different from yours? Avoid making the mistake of finding a clone of yourself or a family icon when you search for a partner on a free dating site.

Discuss the past when ready

People are looking for your present mental frame, willingness to be in a relationship and your suitability for one. If you find someone and there is a mutual positive feeling, at some point, the discussions will veer to the past. If you are not comfortable discussing what happened in the past, tell the person you have met on the free dating site… RedHotPie Uncut in Australia for example. Typically, a recent bereavement or a turbulent relationship is difficult to speak about objectively. However, you must let the person know that you are not closing your mind to the discussion and leaving the person out. Be prepared to make an objective statement without details at the start and the person should know to exercise restraint in pressing for further answers. This discussion will tell you what kind of person you are dealing with in terms of jealousy and maturity in handling sensitive topics.

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